{"id":292,"date":"2018-04-21T18:34:48","date_gmt":"2018-04-21T18:34:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/?p=292"},"modified":"2018-04-30T10:40:37","modified_gmt":"2018-04-30T10:40:37","slug":"please-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/please-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"Please yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This was written a few days ago&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t suppose it would suit everybody but for the first time, I feel I really can say I am Living the Dream. This is what it is like to do exactly as you please\u2026<\/p>\n<p><em>Samsara<\/em> is anchored off Stone Point in the Walton Backwaters \u2013 that maze of creeks and mud made famous in Swallows and Amazons. In fact it was here, more than sixty years ago that I first went sailing and began to become fanciful about living on a boat.<\/p>\n<p>We are here because I have to paint the decks so I need somewhere quiet not too far away from a water tap (have to wash off the degreasing agent). I arrived a couple of days ago. It\u2019s perfectly sheltered and there is just one other boat here \u2013 an old wooden yacht with the bluff bow you see on Dutch classics and a bowsprit almost half as long again. To begin with I thought there was no-one aboard (although there was an ancient dinghy alongside).<\/p>\n<p>Admittedly I had anchored at such a respectful distance that I was looking at her through binoculars \u2013 and then today I saw the skipper. A man of about my age \u2013 although with more hair. He came out, did something on deck and disappeared without looking my way. But then, why should he. I was watching him through the window.<\/p>\n<p>Today was not a day to go out \u2013 bright sunshine but a strong and bitterly cold wind. For the first half hour, I fretted about this. It will probably take me a whole day to clean the decks to standard required by the paint manufacturer\u2026 but then, what\u2019s the hurry. My next appointment is for renewing my long-lapsed radio licence on the 29<sup>th<\/sup>.\u00a0 I can please myself until then.<\/p>\n<p>And pleasing yourself is one of the most wonderful \u2013 and yet one of the rarest- \u00a0opportunities we have in this life.\u00a0 In fact, looking back, how much of our lives do we spend \u201cpleasing ourselves\u201d. If you live with other people, you have a whole separate agenda to consider \u2013 and who wants to be inconsiderate.<\/p>\n<p>But if it\u2019s just you \u2013 and nobody knows or cares what you will be doing today \u2013 that means you can, for once, please yourself.<\/p>\n<p>I do know that I didn\u2019t get up particularly early \u2013 I think it was about eight O\u2019clock. I lingered over breakfast and pulled my one non-navigational book out of the bookcase (it\u2019s all right, the rest are on Kindle but this one has photographs).<\/p>\n<p>I do know that I had several phone conversations with people interested in Network Marketing (more about that on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.networkmarketingblog.org.uk\">www.networkmarketingblog.org.uk<\/a>) &#8211; a bit of work does have to intrude. There was a text from Tamsin asking whether I would be joining everyone for the annual bucket-and-spade holiday in Southwold but I should be on my way back from the Azores by then. However, it will all have to be paid for (hence the bit of work).<\/p>\n<p>Interestingly, I didn\u2019t resent this at all because it was on my terms. In fact, it was exciting to see that the plan seemed to working \u2013 although one conversation lasted for an hour and ten minutes. I\u2019m not sure that\u2019s\u00a0 a good idea \u2013 but we talked about all sorts of things and I was in no hurry to say goodbye\u2026<\/p>\n<p>And so, the day slipped past. Lunch was an occasion. I\u2019m getting a real taste for large mugs of sweet tea with condensed milk. Some time in the afternoon, I became so thrilleod with the way things were working out that I decided that tonight will be movie night. This will be a first: I have a dozen favourite DVDs which I will be quite happy to watch again and again (must have seen It\u2019s a Wonderful Life 20 times already). The computer is charged up from carefully monitoring the solar panel and I\u2019ve got a wire to plug in the little waterproof speaker.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not really that cold but the charcoal stove makes the cabin so cosy that I\u2019ll have that as well. In fact, time for dinner, I think\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This was written a few days ago&#8230; I don\u2019t suppose it would suit everybody but for the first time, I feel I really can say I am Living the Dream. This is what it is like to do exactly as you please\u2026 Samsara is anchored off Stone Point in the Walton Backwaters \u2013 that maze &#8230; <a title=\"Please yourself\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/please-yourself\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about Please yourself\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-292","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/292","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=292"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/292\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":305,"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/292\/revisions\/305"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=292"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=292"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/racecoast.net\/omstest\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=292"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}